Build Your Own Haven Box, Care Package Gift

In short: A build-your-own care package for a caregiver, someone grieving a person or a pet, or someone facing a first holiday without them.

Some seasons ask more of us. This box lets you send real comfort, either built your way or ready to go.

How it works

1. Choose where to start. Build your own, or pick a ready-made care package:
   • Caregiver package: for the one who carries so much, so quietly. Adds a love stays. mug, a soy candle in an amber jar, and a sticker.
   • Pet Loss package: for any animal they loved, big or small. Adds a love stays. mug and a sticker. An always my good one. keepsake tag, with Proverbs 10:7 on the back, is coming later.
   • First Holiday package: for the first season without them. Adds a love stays. mug, a soy candle in an amber jar, and a sticker.
2. Pick something to wear, or skip it. A soft love stays. tee, a women's relaxed tee, or a warm love stays. hoodie, in sizes S to 3XL. Proverbs 17:17 sits quietly inside the collar.
3. Pick a card. First holiday without them, pet loss, caregiver, a new year, or a card for a friend or chosen family.
4. Write a gift note. Tell us what you want them to read and we print it on the gift note in the package.

Shipping

Every piece is made to order just for them, so your gift may arrive in more than one package, a few days apart. Tolu and Cynthia pack the mug and sticker by hand and send them on their own. Shipping is a flat $12 anywhere in the US, whatever you choose.

Gift notes

Who it's for: A caregiver, someone grieving a person or a pet, or a friend facing a first holiday without them.

A gift that says: "I put this together just for you."

Pairs well with: One Gentle Day Card

Ordering for Christmas? Pieces come from more than one print partner. Printful lists December 11 for US-made items (printful.com) and Printify has not posted 2026 dates yet (last year its US partners asked for December 8 to 10, printify.com), both checked October 30, 2026. To be safe, order by December 8.

Quick facts

• Start from a card and gift note, then add apparel or a ready-made package
• Price depends on what you choose
• Flat $12 US shipping
• Made to order, so pieces may arrive in more than one package

Questions people ask

Will everything arrive in one package?

Not always. The pieces may arrive in separate packages, at no extra shipping cost. Tolu and Cynthia pack the mug and sticker by hand and send them separately, so pieces can arrive a few days apart.

How much is shipping?

A flat $12 anywhere in the US, whatever you choose.

Can I add a personal note?

Yes. Write your gift note at checkout and we print it on the note in the package.

Who is it for?

A caregiver, someone grieving a person or a pet, someone facing a first holiday without them, or a friend who needs a soft day.